This site will be updated with more information as it becomes avalable. If there's something else you would like to see on this page please let us know.
- Memorial Services:
- Wednesday, November 2nd, 7PM, service at Bob Martin's 10th Street facility, which is located at 122 10th Street, in SF.
- Thursday, November 3rd, 8PM, service at the SFPC, at 350 Divisadero, SF.
Jane's family is going to establish the "Budfairy Memorial Library" and are looking for anything anyone would like to donate the library. Please feel free to contact one of the email addresses above, and we will make sure it gets to the appropriate parties.
Written by !< @ 2009-06-11
i was watching the tv
the other
!<night
and there you were
a couple pounds lighter
kids, minorities
direction
unity
it was a show called the weeds...
and all i could think of
while they rattled off all the words
that we
have given
our lives
to know
i thought to tell you one day
over flan,
"we did it".
Written by Rob @ 2009-05-10
that was suposed to include my email,,,anyway here it is,
phqinhipp_y@sbcglobal.net
Written by uncle Rob @ 2009-05-10
hi jess, this is the only way i have to contact you so forgive me, how are you? what about court???
are you ok?? please email me,
jess i took care of you everyday for the first 2 years of your life,
you are the daughter i wish i had, i wish you could remember all the funny moments that flood my mind everytime
i think of you,
i hope you are ok and will email back soon,
love ya jess
Robby
Written by jess @ 2009-03-27
happy late birfday you old fart.
miss u mommy, youd be raising hell for me right now. please be with me and guide me on april. 2nd when i go to court. need you more now than ever.
love you
jess
Written by Robby @ 2009-03-19
still here,
still miss u,
still hurts,
happy late bday my friend, see u soon,
Written by me @ 2008-12-23
look around, where do you belong, dont be afraid, your not the only one, dont let a day go by, dont let it end, dont let a day go by, the answer lie's within, life is short, so learn from your mistakes, stand behind the choices that you make, take each day, with both eys open wide, and try to give, dont hold it all inside, you have the future on your side, whatever u decide im sure you will shine, dont let a day go by, dont let it end ,dont let a day go by, the answer lie's within,,,,i miss,u jane,,,me
Written by Daryn Popyack @ 2008-12-03
I just wanted to give you my condolences on your mothers passing, I'm sad to hear. I don't know if you remember me I went to school with you at canada college and we hung out(I'm the weird one). Sucks to hear what happened and hope you are doing alright. Well if you ever want to hang out or anything my email is benzbaron@comcast.net
Take care!
Written by Eleanor Kincaid @ 2008-11-10
For friends of Jane's who also knew X-boy, I wanted to let you know that a group of us are going to be meeting at noc noc (557 Haight St) on Thursday, November 13th, to
remember him on the 10th anniversary of his death.
There's nothing formal planned -- just an opportunity to see people you may not have seen in a long time.
Jane did so much to help me after Michael died, including organizing the memorial at noc noc 10 years ago. I've been thinking about her a lot lately.
-Eleanor
Written by Eleanor Kincaid @ 2008-11-10
For friends of Jane's who also knew X-boy, I wanted to let you know that a group of us are going to be meeting at noc noc (557 Haight St) on Thursday, November 13th, to
remember him on the 10th anniversary of his death.
There's nothing formal planned -- just an opportunity to see people you may not have seen in a long time.
Jane did so much to help me after Michael died, including organizing the memorial at noc noc 10 years ago. I've been thinking about her a lot lately.
-Eleanor
Written by UNCLE ROB @ 2008-11-04
jane got a gas bill from PG,E, for $43,000,,she spent hrs on the phone being passed from one misfit to another, after about a week or so she did something only jane would think of, she got some plywood,about 3ft long and 2/12 ft wide,1inch thick, painted it just like a check in her checkbook, made it out to pg,e (pigishly,gross and excesive) for $43,000, and signed it,,she then took it to the main office in the city and waited in line with this huge woodn check under her arm, i dont think the look on the ladys face when jane floped that thing on the counter and said "id like to make a payment" will ever leave my mind, im laughin so hard right now i fell outa my chair, jane had a flare for the dramatic and talent for expressing herself, its things like this that i remember when i think of her, i start to smile, then i laugh, and then i cry,she could pull a rabbit out of a hat,even when she had no hat, jess, she would be so insainly proud you, i know i am, i miss you both so much, well i just wanted to see if i could make u smile jessica, cuz i love you,(did ya smile?) be well grunion, uncle Rob